Clinic · Mental health
Mental health, treated like any other medical problem.
Because that is what it is. Nobody here will tell you to pray harder, to be stronger, or that other people have it worse. You will be asked what has been happening, listened to properly, and offered something that works. What you say stays in your record and nowhere else.
If you are thinking about ending your life
Please do not wait for an appointment. Come to the hospital now, or call us and say exactly that — the person who answers will take it seriously and will not judge you. If you can, ask someone to stay with you until you are seen. You are not wasting anyone's time, and this feeling is treatable.
Call +234 809 016 0175 nowOur line is answered around the clock, every day of the year.
What we treat here
- Anxiety: constant worry, racing heart, chest tightness, panic attacks, health anxiety, social anxiety.
- Depression: low mood, losing interest in things you used to enjoy, exhaustion, hopelessness, guilt.
- Burnout and work stress: including the kind that shows up as headaches, stomach pain and insomnia rather than sadness.
- Sleep: trouble falling asleep, waking at three and not getting back, or sleeping far too much.
- Grief: including grief that has become stuck.
- Postnatal depression and anxiety: common, under-recognised, and among the most treatable things we see.
- Alcohol, tramadol, codeine, cannabis and other substances: including if you simply want to know whether your use is a problem.
- Trauma: accidents, violence, loss, or things from long ago that have not stayed in the past.
- Exam and academic pressure, and the stress of emigration plans and family expectation.
- Physical symptoms with no physical cause found: which are real symptoms, not imagined ones.
Worth talking to someone if
- You have felt low, flat or hopeless for more than two weeks.
- You have stopped enjoying things you used to enjoy.
- You are sleeping badly most nights, or sleeping all the time.
- You get episodes of sudden intense fear with a pounding heart.
- You are drinking or using something to get through the day or to sleep.
- You are irritable with people you love and cannot explain why.
- You have been having headaches, stomach pain or body aches and every test has come back normal.
- You had a baby recently and do not feel the way you expected to feel.
- You have thoughts of harming yourself. Please come today.
On the things people worry about
These are the reasons Nigerians give us for not coming sooner. All of them are worth answering directly.
"People will say I am mad." Anxiety and depression are not madness. They are common medical conditions, roughly one adult in every eight worldwide has one right now. You will be sitting in the same waiting area as everybody else, because this is a general hospital and nobody can tell which clinic you are here for.
"It is a spiritual problem." Your faith is yours and we will not argue with it. Many of our patients pray and take treatment, and those two things have never been in competition. Come and let us look at the medical side.
"My employer will find out." They will not. Clinical detail is never shared with an employer. On a corporate plan they receive fitness outcomes and aggregate figures only.
"They will just give me drugs." Not necessarily. Talking therapy, sleep work, lifestyle and treating an underlying physical cause are all on the table. Where medication helps, you will be told what it does, how long it takes and what the side effects are before you decide.
By stage of life
| Who | What we commonly see |
|---|---|
| Students & young adults | Exam pressure, first jobs, family expectation, relationship distress, social media comparison, cannabis and codeine use, and the particular strain of planning to leave or being left behind. |
| Working adults | Burnout, financial stress, caring for parents and children at once, insomnia, alcohol creeping up, marriage difficulty. |
| New mothers | Postnatal depression and anxiety, intrusive frightening thoughts, guilt about not feeling joyful. All of it common. All of it treatable. |
| Older adults | Loss and bereavement, retirement, isolation, and depression that looks like memory loss, which is important to tell apart. |
What the first session is like
- A long conversation, in private. Longer than a normal appointment, because this needs it.
- Some physical checks and often blood tests — thyroid problems, anaemia, vitamin deficiency and some medicines cause symptoms that look exactly like depression.
- A discussion of what would help: talking therapy, medication, practical changes, or a combination.
- A plan, a follow-up date, and a number to call if things get worse before then.
Come in today, or bring someone in
- Thoughts of ending your life, or a plan to
- Thoughts of harming someone else
- Hearing or seeing things others do not
- Believing things that frighten your family
- Not eating or drinking, or not getting out of bed for days
- Sudden confusion or a marked personality change
- A new mother with frightening thoughts about herself or the baby
- Withdrawal from alcohol with shaking, sweating or hallucinations
Common questions
Is what I say really confidential?
Yes. It stays in your medical record, which is not shared with family, employers or anyone else without your written permission. The only exception, as in any hospital anywhere, is a serious and immediate risk to your life or someone else's, and even then we would talk to you about it first wherever possible.
Will I have to take medication forever?
Usually not. Where antidepressants are used, a typical course runs several months to a year and is then reviewed and often stopped. They are not addictive, they do not change your personality, and they take two to four weeks to start working, which is why stopping after a week never shows anything.
Can I just have counselling, no tablets?
Yes, and for mild to moderate difficulty that is often the better first choice. Say so and it will be respected.
How much does it cost?
Consultation costs are told to you before the visit. Some HMO plans cover mental health and some do not — call and we will check yours, discreetly.Ask us on WhatsApp
Can I bring someone with me?
Yes, and many people find it easier. You can also ask them to step out for part of it. Both are normal requests.
I am worried about my son or my wife, not myself.
Come anyway. A consultation about how to help someone who will not come themselves is a legitimate visit, and often the thing that eventually gets them through the door.
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What else we look at
Women's health
Including postnatal depression and the hormonal side of mood.
See the clinicNutritional care
Anaemia and deficiency cause symptoms that look exactly like depression.
See the clinicCaring for the elderly
Depression in older people often looks like memory loss. The difference matters.
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If this is an emergency, do not message or book — come straight in, or go to the nearest emergency department. Do not drive yourself. Call +234 809 016 0175.